忍 (にん, Romanized “nin,” pronounced “neen”)
This
is character for patience, endurance and perseverance. I was going
through some calligraphy my iaido teacher, Kiyama Sensei, had done and
given me and came across one piece that was just this character. It’s a
popular subject for calligraphy in budo circles, and Kiyama Sensei seems
to have a special fondness for it. He does it often, and he frequently
includes at least one copy of it when he gives me batches of his
calligraphy.
We’ve never talked about it, but I’m starting to get the message Sensei
is sending me. There is a lot of talk about the important
characteristics of a good martial artist. This is certainly one of
them. Good budoka all have 忍
by the bucket. They don’t expect to master the art in a week. They
keep at it whether they feel like they are progressing or not. These are
the students who show up week after week whether the weather is
beautiful and practice is comfortable and pleasant, or it’s summer and
the only way we survive practice is to drink a gallon of water along the
way, or it’s winter and the dojo is so cold that everyone is eager to
start just so they can stay warm. It’s not a flashy characteristic.
This is a quiet characteristic. It’s boring and doesn’t call attention
to itself. It can be invisible because others become so accustomed to
seeing those with it show up for practice week in and week out that they
stop thinking about them.
Most people with nin
don’t think they will ever master the essence of their art, but they
still come to practice and work at it. They are patient with themselves
and their progress. They keep working at it, grinding away at their
technique and polishing their basics. They aren’t inhuman machines that
never feel frustrated because they are still working on the same
movement they first learned 10 or 20 years ago. They’re quite human, and
will often be heard moaning into a post-practice beer “I’ll never get
that strike/throw/lock/technique right. It’s impossible.” They show up
next week anyway.
These
students aren’t always the most talented. Often they are remarkable for
being so very average in their talent. Occasionally they are remarkable
for their lack of talent. What they do have is perseverance. They come
to practice and they work hard. They go home and work hard there too.
They don’t let the little things in life get in the way of training. In
the words of Nike, they “just do it.” Training happens like the hands
of the clock going around and around. It’s just what they do.
They
collect bumps and bruises and sore joints, but the keep coming. Like
everyone, life gets in the way sometimes. This doesn’t stop the student
with 忍
from training. They may not train as much as they like but they train
when they can. Other aspects of life definitely can be more important
than training. Family and friends are critical. Without family and
friends, budo is just play, so when the need presents itself good
students delay their training or rearrange their schedule so they can
train in the spaces in between other obligations.
When
these students find themselves traveling down a bumpy stretch of
training where progress is elusive and difficult to see, they don’t
trade budo for something easier or shinier or newer. They slog away at
it, plodding down the path no matter how difficult it seems to be to
make progress. There is no final destination on the Way that is budo, so
they take satisfaction simply in being on the path.
Speaking of perseverance, this seemed like your sort of story.
ReplyDeleteI saw that on the news! Isn't it amazing? Mickey Rourke wins a boxing match against a 29 year old, not having boxed for 20 years.
ReplyDelete@ Walt and Rick, The quality of the opponent should not be based on the age but the quality of their experience and the skill.
ReplyDelete15Arev: The quality of the opponent should not be based on the age but the quality of their experience and their skill.
ReplyDelete/// Like some things in the media economy, it is all an illusion
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2854026/Was-Mickey-Rourke-actor-ring-Boxing-match-victory-Hollywood-star-62-dismissed-performance-commentators-accuse-29-year-old-opponent-taking-dive.html
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Yes, but it made Mickey "feel good" -- and that's what's important, right?
ReplyDeleteVery modern.
Do you wanted to take the red pill or the blue pill?
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